Ideally, you will join me together in your first step to a collaborated effort to better your relationship. If one partner is not available to join, we can reschedule our complimentary consultation to a more opportune time. If you’re unsure, you can ask me before booking.

Finding a therapist, bringing it up and arranging a time can feel like another thing you’re carrying. It can feel lonely being the one pushing for change. You don't have to do all the work alone, and we can talk about what it might look like for both of you to take part in the process.

Not at all! You don't need to wait until you're at a breaking point to ask for support. You might want space to explore something that keeps coming up, navigate a change, or better understand what matters to you.

One of you may want to feel close again while the other is unsure what they want. You can raise that uncertainty when asking about fit. The consultation is a chance to discuss what each of you is looking for and whether my service is appropriate, without deciding the future of your relationship first.

That worry matters, and you're welcome to bring it up. We'll work toward creating space for honest conversations at a pace that feels manageable, without shaming or blaming either of you.

Absolutely! As a queer, bicultural woman, I join you with my lived experience and expertise. I welcome Queer / 2SLGBTQIA+ relationships and consensually non-monogamous relationships. You don’t have to fit a particular relationship mold here. We’ll make space for your experiences, intersecting identities, and the kind of relationship you want to build together.